mistaken identity // alabama shakes


So I have this, um, friend.

Last summer, she became familiar with a little band called Alabama Shakes. For the next year, she listened to them on and off. She liked them a lot, but never felt moved to Google them and somehow never saw a performance online. She didn’t need to see them though, she had a pretty good mental image of the lead singer: a too-thin hipster with a big beard. Maybe even one of those twisty mustaches. The beard was red. Definitely red. And he wore a lot of flannel and maybe a University of Alabama baseball cap. Ironically, of course. 

Editor’s note: this is the lead singer of Alabama Shakes:

On Friday, my friend procured an extra ticket to an Alabama Shakes concert that Sunday. She spent the next few days listening to their album in anticipation. 

As she was standing in the crowd behind a group of college potheads (you should have seen the size of their joints… ahem, at least my friend says so. Yeah. She saw them. Not me.), she realized she had never seen a picture of the band about to take the stage. So she decided to Google them. 

“Wait,” she said, “the lead singer is a woman?”

“CHEEEEETOSSSSSSSS,” said the collegiate scholars in front of her. 

“Um, yes?” her companion told her, “The lead singer is Brittany.”

My friend had a sudden flashback to that afternoon, as she was driving with the windows down, listening to the band. “There must be someone up above,” sang the mustachioed lead singer, “saying ‘come on Brittany!'” 

Did he say Brittany?  my friend thought mildly. That’s a weird name for a guy. Is he maybe talking about Britney Spears? Brit could probably use guidance from above. Meh, I’m probably just mishearing the lyric.

At the concert she said, “Ohhhhhhhh.” Suddenly, the world made sense. She liked Alabama Shakes a teeny bit more after this revelation… and felt mildly stupid.

I mean, I think she did. I wouldn’t know.

Rebirth Brass Band in Minneapolis


In high school and college, my friends from camp met up in New Orleans to celebrate New Years. We called it Jew Years, because, as I’ve come to find out in my 29 years on this Earth, Jews NEVER miss an opportunity to use a pun.

We usually went to this legendary bar called Tipitina’s, where a band called Rebirth Brass Band serenaded us with Auld Lange Syne while we toasted with the champagne that was included with our $40 ticket.

Last month, Rebirth Brass Band came to Minneapolis. For the first time in my life, I am this mysterious Southerner who knows the difference between gumbo and jambalaya and has experienced Mardi Gras and drive-thru daiquiri stands and knows the best place to park in the French Quarter and follows college football. I felt like it was my duty to bring some Louisiana flair into my friends’ lives.

So we made gumbo and biscuits for 15 or so of our friends, and Y drove to the only Popeye’s in Minneapolis (can you even imagine — 3 million people and ONE Popeye’s) to pick up the southern staple of fried chicken. There was sweet tea vodka and Abita Strawberry and gooey bread pudding. Just another Thursday for us — simply EXOTIC to our friends.


After the feast, we headed downtown to the Dakota Jazz Club and ordered sazeracs and french fries (obviously).

The concert started out tame, with a few brave souls standing up and dancing at their tables.


But during the second to last song, something happened. Suddenly, the entire restaurant got up and started dancing, in a way that I’m not sure Dakota Jazz Club is used to. Those in the know started waving their napkins in the air, and every girl in the club made their way on stage.


As we were dancing behind the trombonist, my friend K said, “I wonder if he’ll let me play his trombone!”

“You should ask him!” we said, but what we really meant was, “Um, no he will not let you play his several thousand dollar instrument that also happens to be his livelihood.”

K tapped the trombonist on the shoulder and made a trombone motion with her hands.

Without hesitation, the guy handed her his trombone.

Louisiana experience: complete.

diaper blowouts & brunch



Last month, something magical happened. My friend’s baby had a giant diaper explosion at an art fair. 


Funnily enough, that wasn’t the amazing part. 

A woman walked up to us as my friend was wrist deep in baby poop. She was carrying business cards, or maybe coupons, but it was clear she was selling something.

“Hi,” she said, not noticing the sight (or smell) in front of her. My friend and I shared a telepathic moment. Does this lady really think now is the time or place for soliciting?

But then she said the words no millenial can resist:

“Would you be interested in a free brunch?”

Um, do we look like two twenty-something girls covered in shit? Of course we were interested, lady!



The restaurant in question was called Pinstripes, which I knew about only because it’s in the same shopping center as two places where I have spent far too much time: West Elm and The Container Store. It has a bowling alley, a bocce court, and a fire pit with complimentary blankets… swoon.


Something interesting/amazing about Minneapolis that I’ve never seen in the south: fancy brunch buffets. If you invited me to a brunch buffet in Louisiana, I would assume you were inviting me to Ryan’s or Golden Corral or Shoney’s and I would politely decline. But here, brunch buffets are a completely different animal. There are mini waffles with strawberry balsamic cream! Gourmet biscotti! And, inexplicably, a chocolate fountain. Without fail, every buffet has one of these.  Which always makes it feel like an unimaginative wedding and like maybe I should start practicing my chicken dance.


Anyway, this Pinstripes brunch was pretty delicious and had the added bonus of making you feel like you were eating in a treehouse. I approved. 

The moral of the story: wake up and smell the baby poop. Someone might be trying to give you a free brunch. 


F Scott Fitzgerald’s St. Paul

I’m going to dub this — and the rest of this week’s posts — laterblogs. These things happened months ago, when the pressure was high to spend time outside and ignore my computer. I thought they were worth remembering, and everyone knows things never actually happened unless you blog about. I believe it was Abraham Lincoln or someone else equally important who coined the phrase “PICS OR IT DIDN’T HAPPEN.”



How annoyed were you by the hype over The Great Gatsby? It’s the summer of Gatsby! they kept saying. Baz Luhrmann is a genius!

No doubt you were invited to at least one Gatsby party. 



Maybe you had that one friend that listened to the soundtrack nonstop for a month straight, danced the Charleston to Will.I.Am while getting ready for work, finished a book about Zelda Fitzgerald the day the movie came out, and printed a pamphlet from the St. Paul library entitled “F. Scott Fitzgerald in St. Paul: Homes & Haunts.”



Oh, hi, that friend was me.



The book about Zelda was terrific, by the way. We can talk more about that later. What I really want to tell you about is the twenty mile bike ride I made Y take with me so we could do the F. Scott Fitzgerald Homes & Haunts tour — where Scott grew up (we’re on drop-the-first-initial-basis), where he and Zelda had their baby Scottie, and where they had glamorous dinners and way too many drinks. 

Our route took us across the Mississippi, then north along its banks. Eventually we headed east along miles of mansions on Summit Avenue.  Eventually, we reached what I’m pretty sure was Europe. We walked our bikes down cobblestone streets and ogled Victorian houses with the prettiest details. (I did these things, I’m pretty sure Y rolled his eyes and checked his watch.) 

And then — in the classy style of the Fitzgeralds, no doubt –we stopped for pizza on the way home.






The [Soggy] Sunday Currently

Summer in Minnesota is wearing me down.

The sun is out from 6 am to 10 pm, and after a long winter of darkness and biting cold, you feel guilty if you spend any daylight hours indoors. It’s gorgeous today, you think, but let’s be honest: it could snow tomorrow if it really wanted to.

So you think, I HAVE TO DO ALL OF THE THINGS, and before you know it you’ve biked sixty miles, walked eight straight hours, and bought rhubarb at seventeen different farmers’ markets (but haven’t used any of it because baking a pie would require — shudder — going inside)

It’s freaking exhausting.

And then, it rains and your body is like PLEASE LET HER REALIZE THAT THE APPROPRIATE COURSE OF ACTION TODAY IS TO SIT QUIETLY. 

And your head is like, UM DUH, WE ARE DOING NOTHING TODAY BUT SIT ON THE BACK PATIO AND READ, AND WE MIGHT NOT EVEN GO GROCERY SHOPPING EVEN THOUGH ALL WE HAVE IN THE REFRIGERATOR IS 23 STALKS OF MOLDY, FLACID RHUBARB.

So you sit on your back porch and silently judge the author of the memoir you’re reading for doing way too many drugs until you remember that you started the day by talking to yourself…no drugs necessary.

This is my Sunday. How about yours?


R E A D I N G Still on page 4 of The Engagements. I keep falling asleep. I wonder if I should give it up? The other book I have out from the library right now is Someday, Someday, Maybe, a YA novel written by Lauren Graham, (better known as Lorelai Gilmore). 

W R I T I N G things that have been in my head for months. Many thanks to Jenni for mentioning Ommwriter. That thing is magic, I think.

L I S T E N I N G to Joy Kills Sorrow. I heard their beautiful cover of Such Great Heights this morning on The Current’s United States of Americana and knew I had to listen to the rest of their stuff immediately. Of course, I’m in love. They’re coming here this week, but I’m sure I’m the only one I know who has even heard of them.

 In the car, I’m listening to the audiobook Sisterland. I’m definitely caught up in the story, but I think the narrator is making the protagonist much less likable than she’s supposed to come across. I’m a huge fan of the author, Curtis Sittenfeld. Her first novel, Prep, spoke to me. Is that a weird thing to say? Probably. But I already admitted that I have conversations with myself in all caps, so, whatever. 

T H I N K I N G about peanut butter. I’ve usually had some by this time of day… I really think I’m addicted. I was all prepared to eat some vegetables for dinner last night, but then I read this post from Laura and absolutely had to have a PB&J. 

S M E L L I N G lavender. Trader Joe’s put their stock of lavender next to the front door where you can’t miss it. It was like walking into a lavender cloud, and there was no chance of me leaving that store without some. As Y would say, you just got advertised.

H O P I N G that the AC at my work is fixed tomorrow. Three days of no air conditioning turns an office full of smart people into delirious zombies. 

W E A R I N G a cozy blanket over pajama pants. I love, love, love that I can sit outside wrapped up in a big blanket in the month of July and not sweat. Unsurprisingly, I do not miss Louisiana summers.


L O V I N G that we spent the weekend exploring our neighborhood. Dinner at the new brewpub/bowling alley, brunch at the Italian restaurant with the fancy new patio, a walk to the corner grocery store to buy necessities, a bike ride down the bike path along the creek to the lake. 


W A N T I N G   to make ice cream. I’m dying to make mint ice cream, but my mint plant isn’t really cooperating. My Jeni’s ice cream recipe book has been completely underutilized this summer. 

Also wanting to see Pride & Prejudice at the Guthrie. I’m dying to see Vincent Kartheiser (aka Pete Campbell from Mad Men — he’s a native Minnesotan) go from the douchiest guy on TV to literature’s perma-crush.

N E E D I N G  to buy groceries. I wasn’t kidding about those 23 stalks of moldy rhubarb.

F E E L I N G the need to go outside. The rainy morning has morphed into a gorgeous, mild day. Relaxing was nice while it lasted.

C L I C K I N G this link up. I’m on board next Friday! Also, I hope you watched the Jesse and the Rippers reunion.

the sunday currently (multicolored edition)



This weekend started with a magical walk to a wine bar and ended with some serious snuggling. And in between? Pelted with powdered dye. I’d call that a successful weekend.

R E A D I N G The Engagements (well, I’m starting it tonight). I just finished Americanah, which really messed with my head after trapping me in a glass case of emotions toward the end there.


W R I T I N G deep thoughts about my Sunday.

L I S T E N I N G to the soothing sounds of gunshots as Y plays a video game. You guys, this video game uses dogs as suicide bombs. I can’t deal with that. 

T H I N K I N G about taking a second shower for the day… I, along with probably 20,000 people in the Twin Cities, am still covered in blue dye from the Color Run. 

S M E L L I N G pizza. Y did make pizza before he started killing fictional bad guys with suicide dogs, so I guess he’s not all bad tonight. 

H O P I N G I don’t look like a smurf tomorrow. See above.

W E A R I N G jorts and a striped t-shirt; my post Color Run brunch attire. I keep it classy.

L O V I N G season 6 of Mad Men, which we’re finally catching up on. We watched the first episode live, but it was so slow that we haven’t been motivated to watch the rest of it. Until now. And, in true Mad Men fashion, the episodes (and the clothes!) just keep getting better and better. 

W A N T I N G   you know, at this moment, I think I’m good.

N E E D I N G y some anti-itch cream. I got a pedicure yesterday (my first since March, I think… it was getting bad), and the woman doing it accidentally scratched a mosquito bite. I started thinking about how amazing it would be if there was a salon that only scratched mosquito bites. I would probably pay pedicure money for that right now. 

F E E L I N G hot, but artificially chilled by the AC. Sticky. Itchy.

C L I C K I N G articles about race, buzzfeed lists (when did buzzfeed become the voice of our generation??), and pictures of cory monteith. 

deep thoughts {with an amaro filter}

On my birthday, I flew to New Orleans for a quick trip to visit a friend in need of, well, her friends. Speaking from experience, when a parent dies it’s nice to be around people who won’t walk on eggshells around you. People who remind you that crying is okay and laughing is even more okay.

So, despite the circumstances, we did what we always do in New Orleans: went to a vaguely sketchy bar in a vaguely sketchy neighborhood, all of us remembering (but not saying out loud) the time half of our group was robbed at gunpoint.

This vaguely sketchy bar served cake, and somehow, that made me feel safer.



We sat outside in the oppressive heat I had forgotten how much I hate, and as we talked and laughed and reminisced, I grew distracted by my discomfort. I touched my hair and wiped my face over and over again, as if the 212th  swipe at my forehead would be the one that would get rid of the sweat pouring down my face. I was a literal hot mess.

We decided to take a picture.



As I scrolled through the Instagram filters, I became angry. That night, as I officially became another year older, I experienced my first “When I was your age I had to walk ten miles uphill in the snow” moment.  

For so many years in South Louisiana I posted photos on Facebook or pinned them to my dorm room bulletin boards, fretting about how big my hair was or how soaked my bangs were or how wet my face looked. I was a literal hot mess and I HAD NO FILTERS. I wasted so much energy thinking about how gross I was going to look when my friends handed over the doubles from their disposable camera or posted the photos on Facebook (where my CRUSH might see them, heaven forbid.) 

That night in the back yard of that vaguely sketchy bar, I could remove the sweat and frizz faster than you can say “X PRO II or Hefe?” 

Life just isn’t fair. For reasons far more important than Instagram; reasons that can’t be fixed with a filter. 

(But sometimes we need these frivolous things to distract us. Selfie on, world.)